Thursday, October 30, 2014

Lessons from the Brits Week 23 October 12th to October 18th


Goodness me!  I do feel like things are moving right along.  Part of that, I am sure, is my inconsistency in writing.  I will write everything down and actually get it on the blog but then it takes forever to get the pictures posted.  Then it is the next week and I think I need to leave a space of time, so who knows when I am writing and posting.  Believe you me, it is not me knowing               a-n-y-t-h-i-n-g!
I actually haven’t heard any new words or sayings this week, but I thought it would be fun to have a little LIE section.  No, I am not telling lies about anyone but it stands for Living in England.  There are some major differences.
LIE ~ Driving:
Driving would of course be #1.  It does take a while and even now we would love to pull out into the right lane which of course is the wrong lane.  Then the streets are SO narrow.  Next, the streets are always winding and turning.  Trees are overhanging the roads so you can’t see anything.  You feel like you are in a tunnel most of the time even when you are in the wide open areas.  The speed limits seem very high to these dangerous conditions (at least to us senior tourists).  However, the speed limits are not near high enough for the average traveler as they prefer to go much faster and are very irritated when you slow them down.  JOY!


1.  Not now!
Really – seriously – it is already Sunday morning.  Last week we had church at 5 PM and now they are expecting me to be ready by 9:30 AM.  I was a bit exhausted from the entire week and really was not in the mood to get up and at it so early.  Oh well!
Brad actually beat me to the kitchen and had a roast with potatoes and carrots in the roaster pan.  We headed to church where the meetings were very nice.  Home again and the roast looked good so we called to invite Brown’s.  (Mulholland’s have company from Calgary)  Brown’s had already cooked as well so we just had a nice little meal by ourselves.
We cleaned up and had a bit of a nap.  Brown’s rang the bell and said they would like us to come over and play games that night.  We had planned on going to the fireside but decided it would be nice to be with friends.
We played Farkel and Rook.  Brick would have been delighted.  (Brick is Brad’s father that loved to play Rook almost as much as he loved to play golf.  Before you were over the threshold of their door he would be asking if you wanted to play Rook.)
We made it home and caught 2 of the children at home.  Nice to chat!


Fall pictures at the London Temple.



I love this pompous grass!

 
 
2.  I made other plans.
It was a very late start to the day by the time we woke up and actually moved out of bed.  We really didn’t have anything to do and so we decided to do nothing.  Actually we went down and exercised for a while and then came up for a nap.  We really couldn’t sleep so we got up and put the sheets in to wash.  We fixed a bit of lunch and then decided it was now time for a nap.  This time it worked.  We got up actually before I wanted to but I needed to bake a cake for the ‘Hi and Bye’.  The cake looked like it was going to work.  I was very worried and asked Brad to have the corner piece to check.  It was okay so we went on our way.
 Well, the cake didn’t work.  First off, I used the wrong brown sugar which we will talk about later in LIE.  Second, we have no idea how or why but there was a huge burned spot in the middle of the pan that started to stretch out to burn the bottom of the cake.   If you just ate the top it wasn’t too bad if you don’t mind a bit of a crunch when you bite.
We had 7 people doing ‘hi’s’ and 2 people doing ‘bye’s’ and they did very well (in other words, it didn't last forever).  Crocker’s gave their ‘hi’ and they brought the house down.  Brother Crocker brought a bag with Allie in it but we never got to meet Allie but he sure had us laughing with it.  The funniest thing about the night was when President Erwin, who evidently writes a song about everyone for their bye, had written a song about Prentice’s and used the wrong man’s name for Collin Prentice.  It was really funny. 

This week is dedicated to family photo's.
This is our 2013 BHP 2-3-4 family reunion.
3. Emails – Happy Birthday Jake!
Every morning I check the email very first thing just praying I will get an email.  I usually do – Bealls, Vacations to Go, LDS Living, and London Theatre Ticket office – Joy!  But not today!!!  We had 6 emails from our ‘surrogate’ daughter Annette (Turtle) Ricks all with pictures of our house and the hike around the top of the Butte, an email from my best friend, Janet with  funny pictures, an email from our Navajo granddaughter,  Sister Kelsey Curley – who is serving a mission in Casper, Wyoming, and email from our Oriental granddaughter, Miao Haoyu – so cute, and a Jacquie Lawson thank you from our home teachers.  It was like the best day EVER!  I also got emails this week from Brittan on his mission and 3 of our children – 2 with pictures, our good friends from Michigan with pictures as well, and an email from a niece on her mission.  Ahhhhhhh!  I had so many I couldn’t even read/see them all.
We were at the temple early where this week we are greeting the people as they come into the locker room and getting them ready for the instruction session.  I like that as I get to see everybody.   A lady I was helping looked at me and said that she really couldn’t hear what I said because she was deaf but she could sure feel the spirit when I spoke to her.  One man was walking past and then he came back and said my smile was the best one of the day.  Nice!  The day went smoothly but a little low on patrons.
We came home and Betty and I exercised.   I baked bread while Brad fixed supper.  Brad wanted some cinnamon rolls so we baked up some of those as well.  Our cutest Home Teachers brought us some Brandson Pickles which taste like chili sauce so we gave them some cinnamon rolls.  That was fun!  Good Bread.   Then supper, then our book and we waited forever to call Jake for his birthday.  He was so funny.  He said, “oh, hi, Grandma,” which made me assume I had the right number.  I asked him how old he was and he said 11.  Then I asked him what day it was and he said Tuesday.  I then asked what number day and he said the 14th.  I then asked who I was talking to and he said Jake.  “So, if it is Jake, and it is the 14th, isn’t it your birthday and aren’t you 12?”  He then agreed.  He hadn’t seen his card and couldn’t open the computer till his mother came home and said he would call me back.  I told him it was 11:30 PM and I couldn’t wait.  He was so cute about letting me get to sleep.  Cute call!


An old picture of the now 12 year old Jacob Parkinson.

Brian's family at the 2013 Family Reunion - Island Park, Idaho.  
 
4.  Lovely magnifying glass!
Good day at the temple.  I must tell you the sweetest thing that happened today.  We have a little ordinance worker named Sister Rodriguez.  She is really short, very old and can hardly hear and barely see.  She keeps a magnifying glass up her sleeve and then pulls it out to read the names on the cards.  Sister Askew, one of my favorite patrons, made a magnifying glass that hangs on white ribbon so Sister Rodriguez can wear it just like a necklace – handy for her to use.  Sister Rodriguez was so excited.  Lovely! After our shift we did a session at the temple just for us and then hurried home and drove over to Lingfield to buy some milk and check with surgery on getting a flu shot (jab).  They couldn’t do it today and didn’t know when for sure.  Home to supper and our book – Good Day.


 
Katie's family, minus Katie (below) with broken and dislocated toe.
5.  Old Friends
It was a very nice day at the temple as so many of the people I have met before are coming so I feel like I am with old friends again.  Sister Askew, Sister Taylor, Sister Prime, Sister Phillips, Sister Shearing, Sister Rickus, Sister Kitts, Sister Norton, Sister Woolf, and a new Sister McCormick,  and Sister Hall.  I love friends!
I must tell you about Sister Shearer.  She will ask you to help you read the name on the card as her sight is failing.  Then she will ask what year.  After you tell her, she will then tell you all about this person and how she is connected.  Amazing since some of them were born in the 1700's.
After the temple we headed out with the shopping van and bought our groceries and got Brad a JAB at Boots.  Home to supper and our book.


Eric's family at Island Park.
 

Kaiya, Brooklyn, and Eric in Mountain Home, Idaho!
My three angels, Kaiya, Brooklyn, and Sarah Parkinson.

Sarah and Kaiya!
Eric buys a motorcycle.
6.  Guardian Angels
Friday was just a lovely day.  It started early with Sister Askew finding me and giving me some crumpled paper in my hands to make sure it was given to Sister Rodriguez.  She said she had watched Sister Rodriguez eat these little small sandwiches for lunch all week and wanted to give her something to help her out as she thought Sister Rodriguez was looking thinner.  After she walked away I found Sister Callaghan to ask her how we should do this task and I opened my hand to find not only one £10 but two.  Sister Callaghan wrote a cute note from a Guardian Angel and then we took it up to sealings where Sister Rodriguez was working and left it with the
coordinator to give to her.  Later we saw her telling Sister Erwin about it and she was just crying.  Very, very sweet.
After our session we exercised with Betty.  I am now up to 100 curls in different styles and feeling very accomplished.  However, Brad is the one losing the weight and he is feeling even more accomplished.
At 5:30 we went to the accommodations center to have supper with Murdoch’s (they fly out tomorrow morning), the Callaghan’s, and the cooks – the Blakes.  She fixed us a root crumble.  Okay – a root crumble is potatoes, carrots, turnips, swede (yellow turnip) in a sauce with cheese/nut crumble over the top.  It was very good.  Brad nearly died when he found out he was eating turnips, but he really liked the swede.  They had also bought yummy desserts.  Then we sat and talked and laughed for a good long while.  Dishes, home, book and to bed as we start very early tomorrow.



Neil's family at Island Park.


Cowboy Gus!


Cowboy Ty on little Rosie, Cowboy Neil on big Rosie.


Y Fans, until Tyson Hill broke his leg!
6.  Dorothy Ann Maughan
We made it to our 7:30 AM start and had a very nice day. 
When you go through an instruction session a new patron goes through for themselves.  A returning patron can either bring a family file name of one of their ancestors or use a temple file name that someone has sent in and asked the temple to have done for them.  We have a folder of these temple file names we prepare each morning for patrons to do.  Thursday morning I noticed a Dorothy Ann Maughan.  Brad’s grandmother was Ida Maughan Parkinson so I instantly recognized her as a relative and had a huge desire to do this name myself.  I had no time to do it Thursday so we put it to the back to see if I couldn’t do it later.  Friday I got my rota for next week and realized there would be no time next week, I was busy all day Friday and Saturday as well.  I was sitting there staring at that name with tears almost running down my face when Sister Johnson walked by.  She came back and asked why I was so sad.  I explained that this was my grandmother’s name and I really wanted to do it but had no time.  Sister Johnson told me she had been waiting a long time and to just put it in the pile realizing the important thing was that the name got done.  Saturday morning when I opened the names for the day, Dorothy Ann Maughan was right on the top.  I still sat it to the side wondering.  One of the first patrons of the day that needed a name was Sister Anderson from the visitor’s center.  I went and got Dorothy Ann Maughan and gave it to her explaining my connection.  Grandma Ida was from Cache Valley, Utah where Sister Anderson was from so she immediately had a connection as well.  I gave her the name and started to cry and when she tried to say the name she started to cry as well.  Very touching experience for us!! 
I was walking in the chapel and saw Sister Johnson (temple president’s wife or matron) and she stepped back and gave me a big wave that was like something I would do.  I was so impressed.


Pictures taken at the Butte hike we do from our home in Idaho on Monday, October 13th.
Our surrogate family -- Neal, Annette, Sarah and Sam Ricks.
 

Our surrogate grandson - Sam Ricks
standing to the side of our house ready to hike our butte.

Now our surrogate granddaughter Sarah Ricks joins in.




I always get a kick out of Sister Venables (she is the one doing Beesley names) as she comes with about 2 minutes to change into her white clothing and make the session.  Another good friend and quite the quick change artist.  Then I hear this “is she here?”  I come around the door of my little office and here are my 3 friends that I say are joined at the hip.  I can’t even remember their names but we have so much fun together.  It was quite the reunion in our tiny little hallway.  We had 5 female new patrons (don’t know how many males) today so it was a busy day.  They also had one of the biggest sessions in baptistery ever and it was Blake’s very first baptistery experience and Sister Blake was just about undone.  I saw Sister Hall in the cafeteria and she asked when my shift was over.  I told her 2:00 so she really hurried so she could do another session and say good-bye before I left.  I was rather touched with that.  Very sweet lady. 
Brad fixed loch salmon for supper so I was in heaven there as well.  Then we went over to Mullholland’s for cake (which Blake’s had given them.  Sister Blake is quite the lady.)  It was actually the very time they were having the funeral for Brian’s mother in Calgary so it was an interesting night with a lot of reflective memories and stories.  We were glad to be with them. Anyhow, pretty good day.  Pretty good week.


Our Navajo Granddaughter -- Sister Kelsey Curley's first baptisms.
So we are safe, sound and satisfied after week 23 is in the history books.  If I were to give it a name, I would say it was the friends week.  So many wonderful emails from friends and family, and so many experiences with friends here in England.  Yes, I am very satisfied with this week!

You are never taller than when you are on your knees,
Enjoy the fall colors and weather,
Our love,

The Parkinson's

Friday, October 24, 2014

Lessons from the Brits Week 22 October 5th to October 11th


Over and done!  We are now officially trained in all areas of the temple which basically means that we know enough to get ourselves in real trouble.  It is amazing how many behind the scenes events happen to make something look like it is running so smoothly.  It will be fun to go back to our neck of the woods and see how many temple workers are looking so peaceful since they have a staff of hundreds and we have a staff of around 30 to do even more since we are also running baptistery and helping in the laundry and the kitchen.  I am getting tired thinking about it; maybe I should go back to bed.  (Especially since it is 6:00 AM)
Words:
Cackhanded                Clumsy; dropping things, accident prone
Certified                      Being crazy
Fly Tipping                  Dropping your rubbish off at someone else's bin and rushing off
Monkey's Birthday    A day when the weather changes every so often, rain - sun - rain, etc..

1.  Early Evening Session – Late Evening Session
While the rest of our world is attending/listening to conference at 10:00 AM and 2:00 PM we are listening at 5:00 to 7:00  PM and 9:00 to 11:00 PM.  That makes for a much different conference Sunday.  Brad had tried to listen to the Priesthood session from 1:00 AM to 3:00 AM but gave up so he got up and went to the replay at 10:00 AM.  I made artichoke chicken with baked salad potatoes and baked carrots.  Yummy!  We listened to the first session and then Neil called and we talked forever and then talked with Brian’s family and it was time for the 9:00PM. 
It was a wonderful conference – we loved so many talks.  My favorite New Testament story is the 4 friends taking their crippled friend to the Savior and not giving up when the room was full so I loved Brother Wong’s interpretation of that story.  And since we now know Brother Callister from the Rez we loved his talk on parenting and of course Elder Bednar’s talk on missionary work.



Our last pictures of the trip.  Here are Jerry and Ardith at the beach
at Lindisfarne Castle where you drive out to the castle when the tide is low.
 

I think they look pretty good for a 50th Wedding Anniversary!



2.  Fire
We did relax a bit Monday morn and tried to catch up on some of the sleep we missed.    Brad got up but I was sitting in bed with the ipad looking for emails (no luck) when I smelled smoke BAD.  I screamed but Brad wouldn’t respond.  I jumped and ran and opened the kitchen door to have Brad say, “Close it.  We had a fire.”  Our wonderful sack that we cook potatoes in while in the microwave gave up the ghost and started on fire. How that didn’t start the fire alarm we will never understand but boy did we have a stinky kitchen?  I washed  the microwave with vinegar which helped but we can sure still smell it.  We opened all the windows and aired the house the best we could. 
We finished our breakfast  and had a bit of exercise.  I cut Brad’s hair, we cleaned, washed and I did some sewing. 
That night our darling Home Teacher’s brought dinner to our house since their flat is too small.  She brought a cottage pie and apple crisp.  We ate till we could have burst.  We also learned that cottage pie is made with hamburger or what they call mince and shepherd’s pie is made with lamb.  Anyhow, it was so good and we had a wonderful evening.
 

Our burnt potato sack.  It served us well.  Thanks Emily Leatham!

The Blake's -- Yvonne and Mark with their cottage pie!
She was upset about having her picture taken with a fresh haircut and no make-up.
I told her Brad had a fresh hair cut and no make up either. 
3.  Late Shift
Morning came and we got up and headed for the gym.  Betty is really doing her best to whip me back into shape.  She loves those machines and that is good for me since I am an outside exerciser which is now becoming impossible.  There was one funny thing that I actually found out about later.  She had told me she wasn’t into running.  Well, all of the sudden she has that tread mill just a zooming and she is running for her life.  She stops and just stands there panting.  I suggested she do a bit of movement and not stop too suddenly.  Later that day she admitted that she got the machine set wrong and didn’t dare move her hands from the machine to stop it and had to keep running.  She now knows to ask me for help or step off to the side.
We headed for the temple and thought we would be totally on our own this week but we did have our trainer’s hovering over us a bit.  We are making it but we really need to see if we can function on our own.  Anyhow, pretty good day.
4.  Betty Crocker
Betty Crocker was really excited to exercise today.  She had received her new name tag for the temple so she took her old one and wrote Betty on it, made some ‘little cakes’ (cupcakes) and rang the bell for Brad.  She presented him with his Betty Crocker cupcakes in her Betty Crocker badge.  It was very cute indeed.  (Remember, her real name is Janet.)
Our temple shift went pretty good.  We are getting a few more people at the temple.  There is a Young Single Adult group here but they do most of their temple work in the morning or in baptistery.
We did get one spell of interesting experiences.  I had gone down to the laundry to see if I could find anymore of the little shawls we keep in the instruction rooms.  While I was there two of the workers were hanging all the dresses onto a mobile rack.  All the dresses had just been washed and ironed.  The rack evidently became top heavy and started to fall away from them.  One sister tried to grab it and she went down with the rack which scrapped the front of her chins as well.  There were dresses everywhere.  I helped get everything back in order while they called for first aid for the injured sister.
As I was walking back upstairs our biggest session that had just started was all exiting.  Sister Davis looked at me and said it wasn’t her fault.  I guess that all of the sudden the screen started going up and down about 10 inches each time.  It also made a rather disturbing noise as it did.  They couldn’t make it stop so they switched rooms.  The day seems to be going well. 



Betty (Janet) Crocker with her 'little' cakes for Brad. 
5.  Shopping the old way.
Today we decided to go with the van shopping.  They have 3 stops and he also knows how to find the parking lot.  We looked around a few shops and bought me a turtle neck.  Our Sainsbury’s is remodeling and it is almost as hard finding things there as going to the new Tesco. 
We made some frozen pizza’s for lunch and headed to the temple.  Brad did have one fun experience as he has a group if anyone was a certified temple worker.  No one raised their hand.  He later found out that certified means crazy in England.  That brought the house down for the workers on our shift.
6.  Longest Day.
There are now 3 of us using the gym at the same time so I said we could do 15 minutes each on the bike, the treadmill, and the rowing machine/curl-up bar/weights.  That adds up to 45 minutes but since it was a nice day we also went outside to walk to cool down and it ended up an hour and a half.  Oh well.
We fixed fish and chips for lunch and headed to the late shift for Friday afternoon.  The temple stays open and extra hour on Friday and it did seem like a very long day indeed.  We made it in pretty good shape but we were sure tired when we got home.
Except Brad was not in a good mood and could not get too sleep. He got upset listening to a group of men talking about picky-picky complaints about how people do things.  He left the conversation but not before it really upset him.  We read our book for what seemed like forever and finally I crashed.  Brad was up most of the night.  Joy!
We also got some sad news today.  Brian Mulholland’s mother passed away.  She has been in extreme dementia for about 3 years so they feel it is a blessing but they wonder whether to go to Canada for the funeral or not.  To make things more complicated they have company coming from Canada to spend the weekend.  I don’t think they are going but wonder if they should.  It would be hard to go and come right back.
We did get an email from Sister Freeman and she is not doing as well as they hoped so she won’t be back for a while.  I wish I were closer to her.

7.  Finished!
The 2 shifts overlap on Saturday’s so we needed to be there much earlier.  There are normally 10 sessions for weekdays which run from 9:00 AM to 9:00 PM.  On Saturday we have 11 sessions running from 8:00 AM to 5:00 PM.  That takes a lot of organization in overlapping and knowing who does what at the right time as all 4 rooms are running at the same time.  We had our little chart made telling us where to be at every minute so we organized ourselves and walked into the hall to take our places.  Here comes our trainer just a (temple) yelling where we were supposed to be.  We were going there.  Brad was not happy about that but we finally got him calmed down.  It is a very long and very busy day but unfortunately the temple wasn’t that busy so we were not taxed in our work.    We felt pretty good about our jobs but realized we made plenty of little errors that we need to fix next time. 
Our trainer’s wanted to have a graduation dinner so we went to the Thai House.  Callaghan’s, Littlefield’s, Strong’s and Sister Pilgrim came along with our trainer’s so we had a pretty good party. 
We rushed home for movie night which was ‘The Invention of Hugo Cabret’ which we very much enjoyed.  Then finally home to a cup of hot Caro and to bed for the week.

And there you have it!  Another week is finished are we are still doing very well.  We made it through a dreaded experience and all is fine.   The weather is one rain storm after another but we have been assured we haven’t seen anything yet.  One day it rained so hard I thought we were in a rain blizzard. The flowers have all been changed around the temple yards so I guess England is ready for a new season.  I think/hope we are ready? 

Prayer is always in season,
Give a compliment daily,
Our love,
The Parkinson’s

Sunday, October 12, 2014

Lessons from the Brits Week 21 September 28th to October 4th


Another month has arrived and it is turning into a British fall.  September was the hottest and driest on record for Britain.  The carpet layers will tell you why.  Now the rains are starting, the winds are blowing and the leaves are falling. 
Words:

Humming                    Singing without saying the words
Humming                    Being very busy, working at a steady clip
Humming                    Stinky, having body odor
1.  Shortbread Heaven
Seriously!  Is it morning already?  Okay so we made it up and out to church.  The van wasn’t full so we caught a ride.  I showed Sister Davis how to play games on my ipad.  We had forgotten they were having Fast Sunday which was a nice meeting.  Sunday School had a nice lesson on Isaiah but they sure pronounce it differently.  Relief Society had Sister Sweetman teach and I really get a kick out of her.  Brother Rubin Farhall had been at the baptistery during the week and I told him how much I loved his shortbread cookies so he brought us a bag.  Heaven!  We had one when we got home, one for dessert and one at the end of the day.  Other than that, it was just calm Sunday with a little walk and we got most of the family on facetime.


I have never shown a picture of the east entrance and the beautiful flowers there.

The moon was huge so we ran to get a picture and by the time
you get the Angel Moroni in it - the moon is tiny.

We also tried to get a nighttime reflective picture.  Close.

2.  Richmond Park and Ham House
We were up pretty early to make the van to Richmond Park and Ham House.  Brian was driving and LeeAnn ended up in the backseat with us.  Brian was not having a very good time as he lost the lead car and his navigator had different ideas than the Sat Nav but we finally made it.
Richmond Park is really very close to the center of London but it is a rather larger open park with lots of dear and paths for biking, hiking, riding horses and of course walking.  We drove all around the park and saw lots of deer.  We found a place to park and got out our lunch which we just finished before the rain started.  We went into the cafĂ©’ and looked out over the view which was rather foggy but nice.  They had a little gift shop and Brad picked up a couple of bird guides and I got a little wooden puzzle for the grandkids but then they wouldn’t take a credit card so we put them back.  We got out to the van and Whitehouse’s handed us a bag with what they hoped we wanted to buy.  It wasn’t quite right so we ran back in to exchange and then Brad paid them back as we really had money but would have rather used the card.  We thought it was a very cute gesture though.  They had also bought me a cute little green woodpecker pin as Brad had just found one here at the lodge and in that park as well.  It fell out of the bag and we about turned the van upside down but I finally found it.  It is now on my coat forever.
Next we headed to Ham House.  Ham House was a gift to King Charles I whipping boy - Richard Murray.  When Cromwell overtook Charles I Richard Murray also went into exile but his daughter took over the house.   Ham house is about 400 years old and is very nice and claims to have the first operating toilet/bath room in Britain.  But it was the gardens that were wonderful.  Of course they told us to come back in May when there were flowers in bloom but we still had a great time wandering through the acres of lush green flowers, trees, and scrubs.
We also walked down to the Thames River bank and sat to watch the activity there.  They have a ‘shout boat’ that if you yell will come and pick you up and take you where you want to go.
Home again, home again. 


The only picture we got of the deer was in the car as the rain started.
All these pictures are at Richmond Park.





 

3.  Humbleness vs Humiliation
The temple is divided into different areas and each area has specific duties that are to be performed there.  As with anything else, there is a lot that happens to make it look like it is running smoothly.  Each couple is trained in all the different areas and then they are assigned to be the coordinator of a certain area every week or two.  They have a couple assigned to do the training for the new couples.
Okay, if you are reading this then you know us and our personality so this should not come as a shock to you. We have been trained in every area but one and they kept saying they were going to get around to us but something always came up.  An English couple that came about 6 weeks after us was trained in everything first.  Well, you guessed it.  They assigned this new couple to train us instead of the trainer or even someone who has been here for a while with lots of experience.  That really didn’t set well with us and we felt like there was more than one couple being insulted.  The man training us had insulted us on several occasions and we were not sure we wanted this piece of humble pie.   It took a bit, but we finally resolved that we were going to give this our best try and hope that it didn’t turn ugly.  We realized this was our problem and we needed to deal with it correctly.
By the way, our last training is in greeting people for an instruction session, making sure the session runs smoothly and then getting them into the Celestial Room.  We have looked forward to this for quite some time.
We showed up right on time but our trainers didn’t.  The Callaghan’s started teaching us and then the trainers showed up.  It went quite well and we learned much and got along fine.
Betty Crocker said she wanted to learn the exercise equipment so we met and I demonstrated all the machines and weights.  I may be sore.  We had a great time.
After supper we went Home Teacher and finally made it home to collapse.


Our little group in front of the home.  Me in white top, brown pants.

The Richard Murray Home (lots of history)


Each circle has a statue. 
 
  4.  Conkers and Crocker’s
Yesterday was rather respectful (in amount of people attending the temple) but today seemed so slow.  Our training went well but I hope it didn’t show when they said they were training us next week as well. 
After our shift we came home and got ready and met for exercise.  Betty Crocker came so early she came and got me from my room.  We headed out and did the perimeter walk which takes us past some horse chestnut trees.  She grabbed one of the horse chestnut seeds and said, “Oh conkers.  We play a game with them.  On my last mission we taught the Americans how to play it and then the British played the Americans and the Americans won.”  We were filling our pockets with conkers and President Johnson walked up and accused us of stealing his conkers.  He also said that spiders hate the smell of them.  Then I was really picking them up.  We finished our walk and did a few weights as well.
I rushed home and checked the email and had one from Janet so I had to call her.  Then I saw I was late for my haircut so I rushed there only to find out that she had called twice to cancel but since I was there she would just cut it.  We had talked about how I liked the length and maybe it would be good to be longer in winter and all and just trim up the top and sides. 
I came home and walked in and Brad took a look at me and asked how I liked my hair.  I told him I didn’t look but it felt short.  He said it was fine.  I saw he was worried.  I asked him if I was going to cry.  He just looked at me and said it was short but fine.  I jumped up and headed for the kitchen.  I pulled about 2 pans out and realized I was shedding everywhere.  I went and washed my hair twice (without looking) and came back and mixed bread. 
Okay, I will explain.  We were out of bread the other day and I asked if I should try to make bread.  Brad said no as he couldn’t take the tears if it didn’t turn out.  Well, if I was going to cry over my hair, I might as well cry over two things at once.
The bread was a success and Brad was very pleased.  I took a bath and washed my hair one more time (I cannot get rid of little cut hairs after a haircut) and blew it dry.  IT IS SHORT!  I have no idea what happened to the talk about keeping it longer.



The garden to the side of the house.

All the above pictures were of the side garden and this is the back wall.

5.  New Stores and old lists
We got up and made our early shift just fine.  It was a very slow day and we survived the training very well.  Brad talked to Callaghan’s about how busy East Grinstread is and they said they go to Tesco in Crawley.  We followed them over and had a fun time figuring out a new store.  It took forever so we didn’t make it home to exercise.  We had left over spaghetti and fresh bread and just enjoyed the night.
A darling French family.  They just finished at the temple and their
daughter is running to them.  Love mom's hair!

Betty Crocker and me exercising.

We have a great time.  And guess what Betty's real name is?  -- Janet!

Two fold picture. 
1st - Cheerios for Neal Ricks -- Nestlé's not General Mills
2nd - Conckers in the window sill to keep the spiders away.

6.  Fighting words time 2
It was a busier day today and we seemed to have a lot of people around us.  During the course of the day I took a couple of pretty good jabs from the brother training us.  Brad asked if he wanted to take this conversation out behind the temple.  I was so shocked and yes, rather flattered as well.  Brad really stood up for me and it felt great.
Mulholland’s asked us over to dinner with their friend from Whales – Brother Dickey.  She fixed roast chicken that was so good.  Then Brother Dickey would tell us story after story.  Brad mentioned that someone he knew had problems as he had killed himself.  Brother Dickey then said that some could take offense at that since his wife and about 4 others in his family had committed suicide.  Brad said his foot tasted just fine and it ended up being rather funny.  Then Brother Dickey said that Americans were “Over Sexed, Over Paid and Over Here.”  I replied with “Where we are from there are 2 temples within 30 miles of each other and both of them are completely manned by local volunteers to the tune of about 1500 to 2000 a week.”  That changed the conversation a bit.
The back of the house.

The huge backyard.  A great display of wealth as you had 3 grounds man
mowing grass with sickles all week.

Looking Back

The maze trails.

7.  Conference in England
Okay, so I realized we probably wouldn’t get the 4th of July off but I had no idea we would be working on conference day.  I should have realized that we wouldn’t get it until 7 hours later so we were up and at it early.  We only worked one shift till 2 and it really was a very nice day. 
One funny thing was that when we walked out the front door our 2 ducks from the pond were at the door just a quacking at us.  They didn’t stop till we pulled out our sandwiches and fed them the bread crust.  Then the waddled behind us to say thanks.
We came home and rested a bit and then got ready to go to the visitor’s center for conference.  As we were walking out we saw BYU TV was on in the lounge so we went in and sure enough – conference started.  There were only 2 couples in there so we had a great time.  I loved the talks.  Good conference.
We had talked about going out between sessions but decided to just have taco salad here.  We watched the afternoon session which ended at 11:00 PM.  Great session!  We were a bit excited and Brad thought he could make the Priesthood session which would be from 1 AM to 3 AM.  He made it through the first speaker and came to bed.
The library.

They love ceilings.


I love globes and maps.


Rooms and some furniture of the Ham House.


The Queen's sleeping chair.

A new month is upon us.  October is here!  Time is passing.  It was quite the week and I think we did just fine.  Hope all of you did as well.  Cheerio!

The River Thames




Just a street in London.  2 way by the way!
 
 
Happiness is an inside job!
 
Organization pays,
 
Our love,
 
The Parkinson's